The dos Santos Family Christmas Letter

by craigdos on December 24, 2009

dos Santos family

The whole family at Thanksgiving

This year, the dos Santos Christmas letter is brought to you by Craig. Alissa has gone through four years of journalism school, internships with newspapers, and now a full-time job as a journalist, yet decided to pass the torch to someone who has only written e-mails and blog posts over the last eight years. :-) I’m not sure what style of writing is appropriate, but I believe the Christmas letter tradition is mostly about boasting about my family, and how much I love them. This should be easy.

Dad and Andrew

Let’s start with Dad. The least changes with him from year to year, and we want to start small and build up to Andrew, since the munchkin is always full of surprises. Dad continues to work long hours at UofL. His research has done particularly well this year, and he’s written a number of innovative papers that are in various stages of being published. After six years of job switching and vagabonding myself, I truly appreciate that Dad found a job that is: flexible enough to allow him to always put us first, something he’s good at, and most importantly, something he loves to do. It’s not an easy feat, and I am proud to have him as my role model.

Mom, the ESL teacher

Balloons for Mom's ESL class

Mom. I visited Mom recently at her school. She got some free balloon twisting entertainment for her ESL kids, and I got to see her in her element as a teacher. Mom is forever graced by the fact that she just can’t be mean. Her stern teacher voice is borderline comedic. Half a dozen teachers and colleagues stopped by the room while Iwas there just to tell me how wonderful she is. Silly people. I already know that! It’s nice to visit Louisville and see Mom and Dad still fulfilled with this “empty nest” stage. As their kids, we continuously hope for their continued good health and to see them as often as possible.

At the top of Wynu Picchu in Peru

I spent the earlier part of the year in Brazil, then Argentina, then Peru. I climbed mountains and hiked along beaches. But as you will see, the name of the game this year with the kids was “employment.” In September, after four delightful years without a regular salary, I took a fantastic job as head of the mobile division of a games company in San Francisco. So far, I love it. Three quick notes: running is still a constant in my life and keeps me sane as everything else around me

changes. I try to be musical and play the guitar/piano, but my passion for music isn’t matched by natural ability. I would describe my social life as “actively single.” Interpret that any way you want, and you’re partially correct.

Me and the little sis.

Me and the little sis

Alissa picked up her dream job this year as a TV news reporter in Lexington, KY. She’s close to home, loves her work so much she doesn’t mind doing the 4 a.m. morning shift, and is getting opportunities in her field that most colleagues her age can only dream of. I’m so happy to see her dive into something she loves, although it’s weird to see her on the news! Feel free to put her name in YouTube.com and see a few clips yourself. She’s so professional, I have a hard time believing it’s my little sister. She’s still sticking with me in the world of singledom, and we have banded together to talk about the good and bad of dating life.

At Andrew's 2nd Birthday in Feb.

At Andrew's 2nd birthday in Feb

Liane is also employed. Full time. 24 hours a day. With Andrew. The big news is that she’s taking a second job (crazy I know!). This particular bundle will arrive in March, and we hear it’s going to a girl! Alissa and I are ecstatic to be aunt and uncle again, and I think Kevin is overjoyed to fill one more slot on his family co-ed soccer team. Amidst this exciting news, Kevin and Liane will be moving next year as Kevin is about to finish his fellowship in Chicago. Where they’ll go is still up in the air, but after 10 years of hard work, he has fantastic options because everyone he works with gives him glowing reviews. Stay tuned, 2010 will be a big year for the Carneiros…

Before I get to Andrew, I can’t finish this letter without talking about Nana, who passed away in February. As a family, we were unbelievably lucky to be graced by her presence for so many years. She was a calming presence in our home for as long as I can remember. It is now abundantly clear the positive influence she had on all of us. She is dearly missed.

Andrew tries to wake me up...

So Andrew is almost 3 years old. He is a walking, talking, lovable, entertaining kid. But everyone says that. I think it’s best to describe him with a simple story. This is one of many conversations Liane sends us via e-mail.

Andrew is singing Down By the Station and ends with “Chug-chug, toot-toot off they go.”

Then he says, “Why they say toot-toot?”

Liane: “Because that’s what the train says.”

Andrew laughs and says, “That funny.”

Liane: “Why is that funny?”

Andrew: “I go toot-toot on the potty and train go toot-toot on the tracks.”

I hope this letter finds you in good health and surrounded by those you love. Please be in touch… all of us are on Facebook these days!

Love,

Craig, Liane, Kevin, Alissa, Brian and Loretta

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My 10-Year High School Reunion

by craigdos on December 23, 2009

Maryfrances, me, Ashley and Amelia

After 10 years...

Whoa… wrote this after my reunion last month.  Guess I forgot to post it!

Last night was my 10 year reunion. After much planning, mostly on the part of my good friend Sara Hume, the event went off quite spectacularly.   I think everyone was a bit surprised at how much fun they had.  I had an excellent time seeing friends that I literally had not seen since the day we graduated.  I really wish we had had more time.  4 hours was hardly enough to say hi to the people I haven’t seen, and certainly not enough time to really have a conversation.  I heard people say that being connected on places like facebook has ruined reunions.  I think the opposite.  I was happy that a lot of the people I talked to already knew something of what I’ve been up to, and vice versa.  I’m happy facebook gives us a glimpse into people’s lives, and I can say that I’ll be more likely to call up some old friends now that we’ve actually seen each other in person.

The great part is that I was really impressed with the people I met.  Impressed and humbled… I’m not sure if my expectations were low, but I was blown away by all the things people had done.

I’ve moved a lot, and I was thinking this morning that it would be great if we had more formalized reunions for the other parts of life.   I’d love to see my post college crowd after 10 years.  Or even my elementary school crowd in Indiana.  It’s such a strange thing to see people from years past, because we don’t really have a chance to catch up completely, and as much as I’d like to… it’s unlikely I’ll see anyone but a handful of people again until the next reunion.

There was something to be learned from last night.  I’m not really clear on what it is though.  Perhaps that life seems to continuously change, and even if I wanted to I couldn’t stop any portion of it.   Things, people, situations have changed so much since high school that it makes everything seem ephemeral.  My general life situation today won’t be the same tomorrow.  But today I’m happy, so I guess I’ll just focus on that.

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Moved In. I have a home in San Francisco.

November 10, 2009

So after nearly two months, Neema and I are finally getting settled in our place.  We live at 15th and Mission in the (shocker) Mission District.  If you haven’t been to SF, the mission district is a bit gritty, has tons going on, and has a strong latin community. I am thrilled to be back [...]

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San Francisco is tiny.

November 1, 2009

If the world is getting smaller, then San Francisco is getting tiny.  I have lived in the bay area for less than 2 months, and in this time, I have randomly bumped into people from my past more times than I can count.  Actually, to really emphasize how crazy this is, let me actually go [...]

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On my way to NYC for the marathon

October 29, 2009

On my way home today, I was stepping on the caltrain in Mountain View and got a call from Orbitz.  My flight was on time to depart in three hours.  The only problem?  I thought I was leaving tomorrow! Apparently I got confused with the leaving/arriving dates of my red-eye to NYC.  So 3 frantic [...]

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Two Weeks at Playdom, and Living in San Francisco

September 11, 2009

Well, I’m here.  The past week has been a whirlwind of work, play, discovering the city, meeting new people, seeing old friends.  I could write 10 pages on everything that has happened but instead I’ll just give some highlights.

There is no “Seattle Freeze” here. Whenever I opened a map up this weekend, people stopped and [...]

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Goodbye Seattle, Hello San Francisco…

August 26, 2009

My life has had a high amount of variance in the years since leaving Microsoft. I’ve traveled, worked for myself, done contracts, traveled some more and overall, had a fabulous time. The one consistency has been Seattle, which I’ve now called home for six years.  At times it’s been more like a home base, but [...]

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The Salkantay Trail to Machu Picchu

May 17, 2009

Wow. Five days trekking around the national park with a finish at the famed Machu Picchu which was much more impressive than I had anticipated.  What really made the trip was our group, which consisted of a couple from Hawaii, one other east coast American, three Brits, an Irish girl and two Swedish girls.  We [...]

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Lake Titicaca and Cusco… Peru is fantastic!

May 8, 2009

After my adventures in the mountains last week, my journey around Peru (which is being made up as I go along) took me to the famous Lake Titicaca.  After only 4 hours sleep, we took off on an overnight excursion to the islands on Lake Titicaca, which included visiting the floating islands made of reeds, [...]

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Arequipa Peru, Getting Lost In The Mountains

May 3, 2009

So… I´m in Peru.  For about three weeks, and just because.  I had friend traveling around South America and really, it´s not very difficult to convince me to join.  This is my third trip to South America this year and it´s only May. 
Anyhow, I flew into Lima and then hopped on another flight to meet [...]

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